Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Outrage! Chris Brown was slapped on the wrist in Rihanna assault case!

I have to post this entry. Most of my posts are positive and informational about safety.  However today I cannot contain my um... "passion" about this topic.
 
I don't know how many of you have been following this, but after rap artist Chris Brown pleaded guilty to beating his ex-girlfriend pop singer Rihanna, Judge Patricia Schnegg delivered a slap on the wrist and sent the violent offender on his merry way.  1400 hours of community service and 5 years probation?! This is not an acceptable punishment to anyone who commits a violent crime. 
Violence creates physical and mental trauma for the victim that many never recover fully from. Not to mention, statistically men who will hit a women once, will do it again. Ask any woman in a domestic abuse shelter.  Not to mention, Chris Brown did not just hit Rihanna, he choked her and said "I will kill you." But picking up trash seems like an acceptable punishment for that, right?
Thanks to Judge Patricia Schnegg, a message has been sent to men that you can beat a woman and essentially get away with it.

    

IF SOMEONE DID THIS TO A WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE WOULD YOU BE HAPPY WITH THE PUNISHMENT HER ATTACKER RECEIVED?

Read the cnn.com article below for more information.
Chris Brown pleads guilty in Rihanna assault case
http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/Music/06/22/chris.brown.hearing/index.html
LOS ANGELES, California (CNN) -- A plea deal has been reached in the assault case against singer Chris Brown, defense attorney Mark Geragos said in a hearing Monday. 

Brown, 20, faced charges of assaulting his pop star girlfriend, Rihanna, following a row earlier this year.

Under terms of the agreement, Brown will serve five years of probation and must serve 180 days in jail or the equivalent -- about 1,400 hours -- in "labor-oriented service," said Sandi Gibbons, spokeswoman for the Los Angeles County District Attorney's office. He must also undergo a year-long domestic-violence counseling class, she said.

Brown's sentence is comparable to other felony sentences when the defendant has no previous record, she said.

"This is not an easy sentence," Gibbons said. He must check in with a probation officer every three months.

Brown had previously pleaded not guilty to felony counts of assault and making criminal threats in connection with an attack on Rihanna.

But under the plea deal, he pleaded guilty to one count of assault with the intent of doing great bodily injury in connection with the argument inside a rented Lamborghini on a Hollywood street in February. 

Rihanna, whose real name is Robyn Rihanna Fenty, made a brief appearance at the hearing -- after Brown had left the courtroom -- to hear Los Angeles Criminal Court Judge Patricia Schnegg discuss the issuance of a "stay away" order requiring him to stay 100 yards from her. Through her attorney, Rihanna had requested that such an order not be issued.

But Schnegg refused that request, saying she would issue such an order but would revise it to 50 yards -- 10 yards if the two are at the same "industry event" together.

Schnegg told Rihanna, who was wearing a black dress with white pearls around her neck, that she would consider lifting the order afterBrown completes his domestic violence counseling but advised Rihanna not to contact Brown. Asked whether she understood, Rihanna said she did before leaving the courtroom via a back door.

Rihanna's attorney, Donald Etra, said Rihanna made the request because she felt that a protective order in place, requiring that Brown not annoy or harass her, was sufficient.

Schnegg said Brown could apply to have his supervised probation transferred to Virginia, where he maintains his legal residence. He also can complete his community service there, she said, but it would have to meet the court's standards."I want Mr. Brown treated as any other defendant who comes to this court," Schnegg said. She noted, however, that he has no prior criminal record.

Gibbons, of the district attorney's office, explained that the judge wants Brown to work -- remove graffiti, for instance -- as part of his service.

"His sentence is not based on what he's available to do," Gibbons said. "His sentence is what he's going to do, or he's going to go to state prison for four years."

Dressed in a light plaid suit, Brown answered "guilty" when asked his plea by Assistant District Attorney Mary Murray.

Formal sentencing was set for August 5.

After the hearing, Geragos said of Brown, "as long as I've known him in connection with this case, he's wanted to take responsibility."

He said Brown is thankful to those who offered him support and noted that he is "a kid who's never been in trouble before" who wants to "move past this" and get out the message that domestic violence is not acceptable.

Brown "embraces this as an opportunity to get his life back on track and get his career back on track," Geragos said, adding that Brown will speak further after his sentencing.

Etra said after the hearing that Rihanna "was fully prepared to testify and she would have told the truth about what happened that evening." He said she did not object to the plea agreement.

Rihanna had not attended any of the hearings in the case but had been following the case closely, Etra said earlier.

She did not file a complaint against Brown, but the prosecution's case was built on what she told detectives and on physical evidence collected from her, including photographs of her bruised and battered face.

It was not Rihanna who called police but someone who heard her screams for help, according to a sworn statement by Los Angeles Police Detective DeShon Andrews.

The statement, filed with the court to support a search warrant for cell phone records, described a brutal attack against Rihanna, allegedly by Brown.

Andrews said the incident began when Rihanna, who was riding in the sports car driven by Brown, found a text message on his cell phone from "a woman who Brown had a previous sexual relationship with."

"A verbal argument ensued," followed by the physical attack, the statement said. It went on to describe the assault in great detail, saying Brown punched her numerous times and put her in a head lock, restricting her breathing and causing her to start to lose consciousness. He threatened to "beat the s--t out of you" and kill her, according to the statement, and also bit her ear and her fingers.

Eventually, "Robyn F. began screaming for help and Brown exited the vehicle and walked away. A resident in the neighborhood heard Robyn F.'s plea for help and called 911, causing a police response. An investigation was conducted and Robyn F. was issued a Domestic Violence Emergency Protective Order."

At the end of his statement, the detective said Brown sent a text message nine days later, apologizing.Brown also issued a public apology for the incident just days after his arrest.

"Words cannot begin to express how sorry and saddened I am over what transpired," he said in a statement released by his spokesman. "I am seeking the counseling of my pastor, my mother and other loved ones and I am committed, with God's help, to emerging a better person." 

Saturday, May 30, 2009

I'm Still Here!

Hello all!
I am writing this quick blog entry to let you know that I have not fallen off the face of earth! Due to some family circumstances, I have been M.I.A for the last few months. Family first is my motto, so I thank those of you who have been patiently waiting for classes!
The website is going to be updated soon and classes will be up and running.
I am currently working on a stranger danger curriculum for kids ages 5-8 and I know that it will be a great asset for children and great way for parents to open the discussion of strangers with their kids.
Please contact me if you need me. I'm back!!

Stay empowered,
Anni Lundy

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

SHOCKING! 28 year old female arrested rape and murder

Hello all,
I don't know if many of your are following this case or not, but the story is basically this: 8 Year old Sandra Cantu went to go play at a friends house and never returns. After a few week of searching for the girl, her body turns up stuffed in a suitcase that was thrown in a pond that was drained by farmers. Further investigation reveals that the girl had also been raped. Cut to- the arrest of Melissa Huckabee a 28 year old sunday school teacher and the mother of the girl's playmate.  

A female sex offender is very rare. If any of you have taken a class from me, I always refer to the attacker as "he" because statistically (overwhelmingly so) rapists are men. This case has made me think about that. I don't think that I would change my class, but I have changed my mindset.

I speak to kids about strangers at schools and churches. What is surprising to me is who kids think a stranger is. I will ask them "is the janitor at your school a stranger?" They all reply in unison "no." The kids think that just because they see this person on a daily bases that they are not a stranger and they can be trusted. Sandra probably saw this women daily and thought the same thing. 

I do not know everything about kids, but I do know a lot about sex offenders. With children they start slow to gain their trust. Little gifts, inside jokes, etc.. My recommendation would be to ask your kids what their day was like. From school to play dates. If the janitor at the school gave your son or daughter a little gift, they would not think to mention it unless asked. It would however send a red flag for you right away. In short- ask questions.

This whole story breaks my heart. I felt compelled to write about it. I would love input from anyone reading this. As a community, we must fight against such atrocities and protect our youth together. 

This is the link for the National Sex Offender Registry. Please check it out. 
http://www.nsopw.gov 

Stay Empowered!!

Anni Lundy
Protect Yourself

Thursday, March 12, 2009

CALLING ALL GIRL SOUTS!!

I love this time of year. When I was six, I joined Girls Scouts as a Daisy and ever since then, I have been hooked on the likes of Tagalongs, Samosas and Thin Mints. Mmmm. Thin Mints.
So every year I get very excited when I see the Girl Scouts camped outside my local Ralph's peddling their wares.

As usual, I bought some cookies and when I got home to enjoy them, I read on the box "Courage, Confidence, Character." I thought, wow! I cannot think of a better way of summing up what I would like to empower my students with; Courage, confidence and character.

I am looking for Girl Scouts! Preferably ages 13 and up. I want to talk to them about how to use their three C's when it comes to handling unsolicited attention from strangers. You know, the guy who wants to "help" you with your bags (even though you didn't ask) who is "nice" to you (but you don't want to be rude) even though you don't feel quite right about the situation. Yeah, that guy.

These "strangers" could be attackers in disguise that are taking advantage of society's expectation of women to be nice. There are ways to identify predators like these and techniques to use to defuse the situation without feeling comfortable.

So if any of my readers know any Girl Scout troop leaders, please direct them to my blog and/or my website. I would love to speak to them and help their girls grow strong!!

Stay Empowered Ladies,
Anni Lundy
Protect Yourself
Women's Self Defense & Empowerment

Friday, February 20, 2009

Hello Ladies!
I am proud to announce :Back by popular demand!! The Burbank Adult School is sponsoring a 5 week class intensive of Women's Self Defense that I will be teaching!

This is such an amazing opportunity for women ages 18 and over! We have a wonderful facility, 5 weeks to really learn some technique and best of all its only $55! Yes! That is a substantial savings compared to what a private chartered class would cost.

The class will be a mix of our "Rape Prevention", "Ground Fighting" and "Defense Against Weapons" classes we offer taught in a progressive manner for maximum retention.I am so very excited about it and I hope that you can join us.

We have some amazing things planned and I know all the women who take this intensive will come out with the confidence of a lion!

The information on the class is:Every Monday night for 5 weeks from 6:00pm to 7:30pm beginning February 23rd at the Burbank Adult School
Located at : 3811 Allan Avenue Burbank, CA 91505 Telephone: (818) 558-4611To register for the Burbank Adult School class, log on to: http://www.adultedreg.com/burbank/index.cfmprocesstype=department&deptid=9641#ac_115224

There is a student limit and I have been told that classes fill up quickly, so dont delay!

Stay Empowered Ladies!

Anni Lundy
Protect Yourself

Friday, January 16, 2009

Calling all Teens!

Hello All!

Happy New year! It looks like 2009 is going to be a fantastic year. I am blogging today because I am "CALLING ALL TEENAGERS!!"

As the new year started, I began to reflect upon my life and what has brought me and Protect Yourself to where it is today.

For those of you who don't know, I began learning how to defend myself after I escaped a potential abduction from a parking lot. It was at 3pm in broad daylight in a pretty populated area. Because it wasn't dark and I wasn't in a secluded parking garage, I assumed I was safe and let my guard down. And someone noticed and took advantage of that.

I was very lucky and got away. After that, I knew I needed more than just "luck" if I was going to properly defend myself in the future. I was only 19, I thought I knew everything. That day my naivete was exposed.

This brings me to my purpose now. I am looking for teen-age girls. High schools, churches, social groups, whatever. I want a concentration of teen-aged girls that can be taught Self Defense. I find that parents are best in facilitating this, because like me when I was 19, I though I knew everything and I would have never signed up for anything like this on my own.

I want to teach the girls not only how to defend themselves physically, but how to spot waring signs of a potential attacker. Most importantly, because date rape is so prevalent between the ages of 18-24, I want to teach girls how to be direct and explicit in their desires and how not to be manipulated in to participating into something they don't want to before its to late.

For those of you who see me regularly, they know that is has been my passion, my mission as of late. I wont stop talking about it! "I want to teach teenagers!" I'll say at dinner or out with my friends. "If they could just let me talk to them, I know that they would learn something that I wish I would have known back then!"

So, to satisfy my obsession, I implore all you reading this, if you know any contacts at a high school, church or social group where they might be interested in this, PLEASE email me! anni@protectys.com

Thanks for reading.

STAY EMPOWERED LADIES!!
Anni Lundy
Protect Yourself
http://www.protectys.com/

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!


Send this eCard !